Sometimes we say or do things that we see as unforgivable, but if we are truly loved we can be forgiven.... with time. The important thing is to realize our mistake, admit to it, and try to not do it again. In other words... grow up. Sometimes growing up hurts. Sometimes growing up means we have to feel the hurt we've done to others through them. But maybe that's what we need to feel to realize why we can't do what we did or said again. I'm sorry isn't enough sometimes. Sometimes that sorry has to come with proof.
For those I have hurt because I was too young, too stupid, or too out of control to realize... I am truly sorry. I can feel what you feel. I can feel what I did. I hate myself for what I said, but I know you don't. You forgive.... I hope. I don't expect you to love like you did, but I hope that in time you can find a place for me again. Someday.